Explaining sexuality to your child

Filed in archive Politics of Parenting on September 13, 2005

Guess what my 2 year old discovered on his birthday? Mama's breasts!!!

I was playing with him when he suddenly used both hands to touch my breasts. Surprised, I looked at him. He laughed and said, "Mama, soft".

Ah, the joys of parenting. Despite the sometimes overwhelming sense of physical unattractiveness (due to stretch marks, etc.), dilemma over staying home or working, separation anxiety, I would not want things to be any different.

He is, for now, too young to learn about the birds and bees. However, should you be in a similar situation but with an older child and need a bit of help on how to discuss that dreaded subject (sexuality), here are a few resources which may guide you in talking about sexuality issues to your child.

List of books from FamiliesAreTalking.Org to help parents talk about sexuality.

"Your child's sexuality does not need to be an uncomfortable topic. If you tell the truth and talk at your child's developmental level, you can help your child grow up safe, self-aware, and sensible." Dr. Spock explains in detail.

Remember, sexuality education begins at home. Teach your kids the right values before someone else does.