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Kids and Sports
by Michelle Donahue Hillison on August 12, 2008

Chinese national team gymnasts in 2007
With the Olympics in full swing now, the topic of sports and children comes to my mind.
Athletes seem to be getting younger and younger in international competition. The youth movement was so pronounced in gymnastics that their governing body had to create a rule mandating athletes be sixteen to compete in Olympic gymnastics. Even now questions abound if some nations have faked birth certificates to enter younger gymnasts. One of the Chinese girls looks all of 12.
Young bodies are still growing and the cost of training them too excessively won't show up for years. Children shouldn't be forced to lose all semblance of a normal life before their teens for athletic purposes. Sadly that's common in many sports and countries as young athletes leave home to train in other cities - with or without their parents.
In the 2004 Olympics, two very young swimmers had meltdowns at the pool - one curled up in a ball barely able to breathe and one hiding the bathroom after an embarrassing disqualification that ended his Olympics for it even started. Both are back now and in the first days of the Olympics have won medals.
The pro tennis circuit for awhile had a spat of young girls who grew up resenting their coaches and parents and burning out spectacularly. Now that too is limited with an age limit.
Golf phenom Michelle Wie skipped many junior tournaments to move up to LPGA events and then even trying PGA ones. Neither have been a success and Wie is almost out of sponsor exemptions, which allow her to play in tournaments despite not meeting qualification rules. She might even be faced with going to Q School, the qualifying school for the pro golf tours which most high level golfers skip.
Would Wie be a tougher player if allowed to play with her peers and slowed down? Who knows. Would she be happier person? Can't answer that either. But I do think young athletes need a chance to learn to win, not just be pushed ahead so often they never learn how to be victorious under pressure.
Of course many young athletes win everything they touch and moving them up levels is the only solution to give them some competition. However mental toughness is one of the things that separate out the elite athletes from the physically gifted ones. You gain mental strength the longer you compete, the more you grow up.
Those young swimmers who made the team in 2004 didn't really embarrass themselves. They acted like the teenagers they truly are - there is no shame in that. But perhaps there were other swimmers almost as fast who would have been able to actually effectively compete.
My conclusion is that the gymnastics people have it right - sixteen should be the minimum age. I wouldn't have problem with eighteen. Let kids be kids.
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Response from:
Kelly
(08/14/08 12:45am)
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Michelle Donahue Hillison
(08/14/08 8:16pm)
I understand you can peak early in gymnastics but wouldn't it be nicer to not put that pressure on those young kids and allow them to develop their bodies and mind at a more normal rate?
Sports do evolve over the years - perhaps gymnastics could end up be shaped in a way that bodies from 16-20 would be 'peak'? Higher degrees of difficulty for moves with more power.
We have a collegiate assistant gymnastics coach a few streets over and right up the street we have a former national team gymnastic who was Olympic caliber - she was injured and missed her window for the Olympics. Both of them have mentioned the early stress on these kids as not always a good thing.
You have a good head on your shoulders it sounds like so either way, I suspect your child will be protected and the decisions made on her behalf will be for life's best interest. I think I worry more about the people who are willing to entrust their children to people who may not have the child's best long term interests at heart.
Heck my fourth grader can't handle middle school drama! She had kids 1 to 2 grades older on her last soccer team and she didn't really deal well with the attitude and snipping.
Good luck to your daughter in the future! Maybe we'll be seeing her Olympics some day!
Sports do evolve over the years - perhaps gymnastics could end up be shaped in a way that bodies from 16-20 would be 'peak'? Higher degrees of difficulty for moves with more power.
We have a collegiate assistant gymnastics coach a few streets over and right up the street we have a former national team gymnastic who was Olympic caliber - she was injured and missed her window for the Olympics. Both of them have mentioned the early stress on these kids as not always a good thing.
You have a good head on your shoulders it sounds like so either way, I suspect your child will be protected and the decisions made on her behalf will be for life's best interest. I think I worry more about the people who are willing to entrust their children to people who may not have the child's best long term interests at heart.
Heck my fourth grader can't handle middle school drama! She had kids 1 to 2 grades older on her last soccer team and she didn't really deal well with the attitude and snipping.
Good luck to your daughter in the future! Maybe we'll be seeing her Olympics some day!
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coke
(08/17/08 8:45pm)
what do you mean by "let kids be kids" ? how many kinds of kids do you think there are ? have you ever something to the kids who are in different situations ? you manage your own kids , and there are many families all over the world.
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Unfortunately, I personally know the stress of having a child capable of competing at a much higher level than her peers. At six, she tumbled as well as most 11/12 year olds. However, the girls that age are so, so different from a 6 year old. She is welcomed by them, but can't really relate to middle school drama. In the end, we kept her on the 6-8 year old age team and she practices/alternates with the older girls as well. We've had to walk this line with her before (she's gifted) and to anyone who thinks it must be so nice to have a talented kid, it's not all it's cracked up to be. We love her, but some days wish she were just a bit more "average".