Parenting is challenging. Parenting abroad means you get an additional mile to finish that obstacle course.

Granted that some expatriates enjoy benefits such as having household help, a generous salary package and International school for the kids, there are still lots of issues that could tip the scale despite all those above-mentioned WOW factors that is included in the expatriate package.

The country you moved to may have some security issues (think terrorism), there's the language problem and your kids are confused. And then, you also have to consider that you might find yourself at home, alone with your child and struggling to fit in.

Situations vary, depending on where you are assigned, how old your kids are and what your expectations are.

The best move would be to seek out other expatriate parents, even before the big move. The promise of help from people who could sympathize and empathize with you could mean a great deal. It would help you a lot during your transition. Fellow expat parents could even help you find the best school (if needed), English speaking doctors and the other basic necessities in life which may be difficult to find when you are abroad.

If your child is old enough, talk to him/her. Try to highlight the advantages.

Before you relocate, try and start learning the basics of the language with your child. That way, it would be easier for you AND your child to adjust to your new surroundings. Your child will adjust faster and would make friends easier.

Expatriate parenting is difficult but preparing yourself and your child could help make the transition a lot easier.

Check out Bangkok Expat Mama for an idea of how expat parenting could be handled. I've read all through her archives and was impressed and entertained.